Feminism. Several months ago it was just a concept… somewhere… out there. All I knew was that I wanted to avoid being labeled “a feminist” at all costs. Being called a feminist was the equivalent of “you’re an angry and overly uptight asshole and you’re ruining our fun.” Even though I wholeheartedly believed in what feminism represents, I felt that being explicit about it gave people a reason to dismiss and silence me. “Oh, she’s one of those…” and everything I said was instantly deemed irrelevant and annoying.
That was several months ago.
Three days ago I was told I would have to find my way to the MetroTech Center in Brooklyn where Ms. Foundation is located. I would have to use the SUBWAY!! Needless to say I got lost more times than I would have liked. As I walked into the elevator to the 26th floor where Ms. Foundation is located, I was sure of two things: Ms. Foundation is an organization that promotes the rights of women and I have no idea what to expect. My idea of a non-profit office space was a stuffy 10×15 room with old computers and no space to breathe.
It was nothing like what I had anticipated. I walked through the beautiful glass doors and was warmly greeted by Lulu. The space was open and bright, the walls were white and red and featured quotes and beautiful images of women. 
The view was absolutely spectacular.
Everything about the space was inviting. Shortly after, Lulu gave me an overview of the organization and introduced me to members of the staff. When I sat down at my desk, I realized that I was surrounded by intelligent, passionate women who openly call themselves feminists and bravely stand up for what they believe. There was nothing angry or scary about them.
Working at Ms. Foundation even for the last few days made me realize that change cannot happen quietly. One must take a firm stance on something and fight to promote it. I realized that the very notion that all feminists are unpleasant or annoying is what I must stand up against. I am excited to see how working in this environment and exploring what feminism means to me will shape my perspective.
As for now, I am Karolina Povedych and I am a feminist.
