Even if the more overwhelming effects of layoffs are for those who get laid off, it also has a huge impact on individuals who keep their jobs. Layoff survivor guilt, also known as workplace survivor syndrome, refers to the remorse or complex feelings employees who remain at a company experience after a round of layoffs.
Although surviving a layoff gives you relief about keeping a steady income and your current career path, you may also experience guilt for preserving your job, grief over those close coworkers who got laid off, fear for what is to come, and anger towards your employer. When these negative feelings are not addressed and treated, they could lead to further problems like imposter syndrome, burnout, or poor employee wellness. In extreme cases, these effects can lead to survivor anger, where you express frustration and resentment openly, both online and in person.
Facing your emotions and taking action as quickly as possible is essential to inhibit the adverse effects of workplace survivor syndrome. Otherwise, it would not only interfere with your career goals but also affect your physical and mental health.
If you’re one of those employees left behind to pick up the pieces after a layoff, here are a few ways to deal with layoff guilt.
Embrace your feelings. It is essential that you take the time to process your emotions. Surviving a layoff affects you both physically and mentally; therefore, you must take time to identify your state of mind and what you need to get back on track and get over the layoff survivor guilt.
Nurture your relationships with current and former colleagues. Although you and your laid-off coworkers won’t spend more time together at work, you can still nurture your relationship with them outside the workplace. After a layoff, it’s also an ideal time to start networking with colleagues from other areas within your organization, as it will allow you to forge new friendships to keep your support system strong in the workplace.
Set clear boundaries on your role’s responsibilities. As there are fewer people on the team but the same number of tasks, employees usually find themselves doing the work of two or more roles. The problem is when there is not a clear agreement between workers and managers. Sit down with your managers to set your new job expectations, current responsibilities, and the projects you can absorb to keep your workload reasonable without affecting your performance.
Evaluate your profile. The new responsibilities you may get after surviving a layoff can mean a chance to advance in your career. Use the opportunity to reflect and get insight for upskilling or reskilling. Take the time to plan and be intentional about your career as you also weigh in if these new tasks can be the forecast of a career change.
Set goals and move forward. Even if the right time for making career moves or having a chat with your manager to discuss future plans will be when things are more stable and not immediately after the layoff, make sure to set a time span —from three to six months after— to move forward your goals. Whether you lean toward a lateral move, a new opportunity at another company, or a career change, remember to take care of yourself.
By taking a comprehensive approach that addresses both your emotional and practical needs, you can effectively mitigate survivor guilt and become more resilient.
References:
HRD Connect (2024, June 18): The Other Side of Layoffs – Survivor Guilt
GPAC (2024, May 16): Layoff Survivor Guilt: What is It and How to Cope with It?