How to Break a Single Streak

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There is little worse in this world than realizing you’re in the middle of the dreaded “single-streak.” Sure, you might have been on some first dates, and maybe even some second and third dates. But for the life of you, you just can’t seem to find anyone to seriously date. Below are some tips on how to remove yourself from this rut and find that special someone!

1. Work on your pickup lines

The worst thing you can do is always wait for the other person to approach you. Sure, that person behind you in line at Starbucks might not initiate a conversation because he or she isn’t interested in you, or perhaps is already in a relationship. But there’s a chance that the person behind you is just shy or unsure of themselves. But wait, you’ve been working on your pickup lines and small talk! No problem: find something witty and smart to say to break the ice, and who knows: you might score a date out of the interaction!

2. Try online dating

I know, I know. You’re either for online dating, or you’re against it. But numbers don’t lie. So many people have met that special someone online: shouldn’t you at least give it a try? You’re not required to go on any dates with anyone you’re not interested in. But keep this in mind: everyone who takes the time to create an online dating profile is really looking to be in a relationship. This means that your chances of not only meeting someone interesting, but meeting someone who is also looking for a relationship, are actually pretty good!

3. Ask your friends for help

Seriously. Let ‘em know you’re single and you’re looking! Ask them if they know anyone they can set you up with, or if they will go out with you to your local singles hot spot. And of course, don’t overlook throwing parties and asking your friends to bring their single friends.

4. Get out!

You’re not going to find Mr. or Mrs. Right while sitting at home on your couch (unless, of course, you’ve invited your friends and friends-of-friends over). Make an effort to get out of the house as much as possible. Take your dog for a walk at a popular park, rather than just around the block. Go out for a cup of coffee or a drink, rather than having one at home. Join as many groups as you can. It doesn’t matter what type of groups, as long as you are interested in the subject. It’s much easier to meet someone in a group of people with common interests (hiking, softball, cooking) than when you’re with a group of people that may or may not have similar interests as you.

5. Don’t act too needy!

Sometimes during a long single streak a person can sabotage their chances of finding a partner by acting too needy. Sure, we all have needs, and those in the middle of a single streak are probably finding their needs for love are being unmet. However, don’t approach every person you meet as the potential person who will instantly give you all the love you’re craving. You will come off needy and emotionally unstable. Rather, think of this potential partner as someone who make your already fabulous life even better: that it, a relationship you want, but don’t need. In other words: be happy with yourself before you try to find a new relationship.

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