Tradition and Opportunity

Memorial Day Weekend is traditionally the most anticipated and jam-packed three days of summer in my hometown of Carmel, Indiana. Every year, several of my family’s closest friends travel to visit the quaint suburb just north of Indianapolis I’ve called home for practically my whole life. There is constantly something to do, somewhere to go, or someone to see during this weekend, and though exhausting, it’s usually one of the highlights of my summer.
The Indianapolis 500, the greatest spectacle in racing, is a Memorial Day Weekend tradition in my home state. The race is just one of the many things I love about Indiana.

This year in particular, three family friends who have young children of their own came to visit. I got to play with all of the kids this weekend, and though shy at first, once they loosened up, they were non-stop balls of energy, running circles around me while I played countless games with them. It was incredible to see how different each one of them was, with their own unique personalities and quirks.

As I tried to keep control of the chaos that the kids were creating, I couldn’t help but think ahead to the children we will soon work with at Ana-El Masry. I can only imagine what some of the children at Ana-El Masry have been through in their lives thus far. I have grown up with everything I could ever need and more provided for me. No one likes to admit they are spoiled–so I’ll say I have been very, very, very lucky throughout my life to be given the things I have. But I think that getting to know the children we will work with, peering inside their souls, connecting with them, teaching them, and learning their stories will help me grow as a person.

Usually my summers are filled with country concerts, eating out with friends, long runs through Carmel, afternoons playing tennis, or late night movies. My life at home is great; it’s comfortable, easy, and relaxing. But from my time spent at Duke the last two years, I have learned that learning doesn’t come when those feelings are present. One must be pushed outside their comfort zone and forced to deal with situations they are not used to.  DukeEngage certainly offers this opportunity, and will be unlike anything  I have ever done.

As the departure date inches closer (just three days now), my feelings have intensified. Am I ready to leave home? No. Am I excited to experience Cairo and begin our partnerships with the organizations? Absolutely. Am I nervous? Heck yes. I think these feelings are all natural, and frankly I would be worried if I wasn’t having them. I can’t be sure of anything at this point except one thing: the 8 weeks ahead of me will be the most eye-opening, enlightening, and incredible opportunity of my life.

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About Kishan S

Hey y’all. I’m Kishan, a rising junior from Carmel, Indiana. I am a Public Policy major and a Chemistry minor at Duke, and plan to enter medical school and be a pediatric plastic surgeon in the future. I have been fascinated by the history, culture, and language of the Middle East since high school, and Duke has allowed me to pursue these interests through various courses and the DukeEngage program. I love traveling and reading, and eventually plan to open public health clinics in the Middle East as a philanthropic endeavor. I cannot wait to immerse myself in the culture of Cairo and begin our partnerships with the organizations. I can’t wait to share my experiences with you all.

2 thoughts on “Tradition and Opportunity

  1. Kishan,
    I’m pretty sure your summer won’t be comfortable, easy and relaxing. But you’re right–we usually learn best when we find ourselves in settings that are challenging and that test our expectations and limits. I’m really looking forward to reading about what you all experience in Cairo, and I’m wishing you lots of growth and some fun as well.
    Kelly

  2. Kish- you said it perfectly. What an opportunity you have to make a difference. Go get them- you make us all proud. Love ya. Miss you already!

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